Self-Actualization
is literally defined as achieving one's full potential. While
affirmations are largely about the journey we take, self-actualization
is about the final destination or the finished product. It is realizing
the goals you've set for yourself and so much more.
Self-Actualization
requires realistic expectations and reactions to the world around
you. Those who are self-actualized have no real fear of the unknown
and are ruled by logic rather than emotion.
In
addition to this, they have accepted themselves and are not only
comfortable with who they are, they are actually happy with themselves.
They are no longer seeking to fill a void in their lives they are
complete.
Someone
who is self-actualized isn't hampered by societal conventions or
expectations, rather, they are motivated towards growth and ever
expanding horizons. They also have a tendency to need time alone.
In
addition to being the destination, for many, self-actualization
is the journey. It gets confusing because the journey and the
destination share the same name, however, it is very possible to
be on a journey of self-actualization without having reached the
point of actually being self-actualized yet.
How
can it be both the journey and the destination? Perhaps because
they haven't thought of a better name for either process would be
the short answer. However, the answer may be a bit more complicated
than that. The journey teaches you the lessons required to reach
the destination. Life sure has a tendency to be like that, doesn't
it?
Every
experience defines the person we become, and as humans, we are continuously
evolving because we constantly experience new things. However, I
believe that not only do our experiences shape us, but also our
reactions to those experiences effect us profoundly as well.
Whether
you are on your journey, considering the journey, or have reached
the destination of self-actualization, you must admit, life is one
heck of a ride no matter where you are sitting on the train. Retired
college professor Patrick J. Ryan has offered some pretty incredible
tips that can help you along your personal journey. You
can check out a sample right here.
Are
you ready to be self-actualized for greater happiness and success
in your life?