There
are many popular affirmation manuals on the market today. The affirmations
that they contain are most of the time beautiful and well written.
However, affirmations will have no effect if you do not believe
in them yourself. In fact, if you don't believe in the affirmations
that you are saying, they will be completely and utterly useless.
You must find affirmations that resonate with you, and that's why
instruction in writing your own affirmations is essential.
There
is also a natural process that must occur when you begin to use
affirmations. Since many of us have grown up with or developed
negative thoughts about ourselves, we may not believe in what we
are saying. For example, the affirmation "I am incredible"
will have no resonance with you if your mind is responding "No
I'm not, I've done this, and this " and you proceed to
mentally rehearse all of the negative things you have done in your
life.
For
these reasons it is important to start your empowerment process
with releasing and cleansing affirmations. When you employ releasing
and cleansing affirmations in your affirmation process, you can
clear yourself of the powerlessness that you feel. You also open
yourself up to the possibility of being a stronger, more powerful
person.
The
purpose of releasing and cleansing affirmations is to let go
of all of the unneeded beliefs, behaviors and attitudes that are
no longer serving you. Your mind can be looked at as an attic.
Over the years, when a family lives in a house for an extended period
of time, they begin to collect things in their attic. Some of it
is necessary, but most of it is not. Your mind works the same way.
There
is a perception that all of the thoughts and feelings you experience
about yourself and your capabilities are important. However, this
is not the case. All too many of us hold onto negative attitudes
about ourselves which limit our behavior and keep us from reaching
our potential. It's time to clean out that mental attic of everything
that is not serving us in achieving what we want to be.